Who we are:

A consultancy and collaborative designed to cultivate the cure to creatives’ pain points:

It’s evident that creatives attention is pulled in a million directions that don’t actually matter to them. F*** Your Boxes (fill in the blank with your favorite 4 letter F word) helps creatives, professionals, entrepreneurs, and free spirits realign with what’s truly important in their personal journeys. Attention, time, and energy are real currencies, and too many creators are distracted and depleted. We bring focus back to what fuels you—not what drains you.

Our approach is neurodiverse, BIPOC and parent friendly, rooted in deep, individualized care. Through 1:1 consultation and real collaboration, we craft personalized strategies that honor your unique rhythm, helping you cultivate clarity, efficiency, and ease—without forcing yourself into burnout cycles or systems that were never built for you.

Here, it’s more than a service—it’s a culture. A space where leaders don’t have to sacrifice their well-being for success. Every need—mental, emotional, creative, spiritual and financial—deserves to be met. No more distractions. No more depletion. Just clarity, freedom, money and a schedule that actually works for you.

What we do:

We help creatives and overthinkers get unstuck, focus, and make more money—without stress or burnout.

Who we Serve Best (Micro-Niche):

While others may offer clarity, you specifically help:
✔️ Creatives (artists, writers, designers)
✔️ Professionals (CEOs, founders, high-performers, military, athletes)
✔️ Neurodiverse thinkers (ADHD, gifted, deep-feelers/lovers)

3. The Way We Work (The Method):

We do NOT coach, do licensed therapy, or have done for you work

Our approach is conversational, insightful and down to Earth. People walk away with instant clarity after one consultation.

Step 1: Book a call

Step 2: Be honest and ready for a real plan of action that aligns with your purpose and life

Step 3: Be open to being supported by the community forever.

4. What You Gain as the client (Emotional & Financial ROI):

Most clarity consultants stop at “feeling clearer.” We take it further— clients end up making more money, feeling more self-love (and love around them), and finally moving past what’s been blocking them.

Final Differentiator:

F*** Your Boxes is NOT corporate, NOT stuffy—we’re real, playful, and DEEP at the same time. That energy attracts a specific kind of people who value authenticity and outside-the-box thinking.

So in short, our edge is:
🔥 Our energy (safe, deep, loving, and real)
🔥 Our people (creatives, professionals, and neurodiverse minds)
🔥 Our results (clarity + action = more money & ease)

Meet the founder, chief consultant and guide, Haley Jay. AKA: The professional lover who pours into those that pour into others.

She created F*** Your Boxes because there is a tenderness this world owes to the heart of creators but refuses to offer it without condition. There is a tenderness creators owe to their own hearts but never had the space to feel valuable enough.

With a Bachelor’s of Science in Human services, back ground in hypnotherapy, relational repair, law, history, economy and life sciences, Haley Jay is an expert in holistic self love and specializes in focus and productivity for the underrecognized.

She leads with love and grounded strategic insights applicable to even the most chaotic mind. One focused conversation with the Professional Lover clears up years of overthinking.